Navigating negativity,the power of self love

 Navigating through the company of self centred and negative individuals can be emotionally taxing.These are people who seem to find fault in every situation,never acknowledging anything positive.They have a way of making even the best weather unbearable too hot in the sunshine ,too gloomy in the rain.

These individuals can be found in various aspects of our lives,be it at home,the workplace,or even among close relationships like family or friends.Its almost as if their negativity becomes a black hole, threatening to suck you into their world of perpetual dissatisfaction.

However there's a powerful antidote:self  love.Its not just about indulging in personal pleasures or material persuit,it's about cultivating an internal strength that shields you from external negativity.When you genuinely love yourself,the complaints of these individuals lose their power over you.

This journey towards self love is not an overnight transformation.There will be days when their negativity might irritate,that's perfectly fine.Its during these moments that you strengthen your mental resilience.Its like running a long distance race,where sometimes your mind questions why you are ensuring the struggle,yet it's the collective effort of all your cells , particularly your strong minded brain  that propels you forward.

Just like every living thing is composed of cells,your mental fortitude is paramount.when faced with the constant refrain of stopping and questioning your choices,it's your mind fuelled by self love that helps you persevere.in dealing with these emotionally draining people,a robust mindset and unwavering self love becomes your armour.

Consider it a journey,much like the one that brought you to your current point in life.Loving yourself enough creates a buffer,insulating you from the impact of toxic and unhappy people.Infact when they attempt to bring you down,your mental strength allows you to smile in tye face of adversity.Your self love becomes  a grand shield against their negativity ultimately preserving your inner happiness.

Keep smiling.

Yours 

Kajad

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