Cultivating self love

 Self love is a fundamental human need,yet not everyone practices it.Its not linked to money nor is it a one time thing,no no it's a daily commitment.Just as you great others,great yourself in  the morning and wish yourself a good day.Embrace your uniqueness,you are irreplaceable ,unlike rare diamond that can be minted in different colours and sizes.There's only one you ,no spare parts either.Treat yourself as the most special person you are,smile often,and find so.ething to appreciate even on tough days.

As Christmas approaches, consider your gift list.Is your name at the top?Take charge and prioritize yourself.when shopping for others, indulge in a cup of coffee or something you love,don't feel quilt getting something special just for you.

Every day wish yourself a good morning,good day,good night.Celebrate small achievement,and with time, happiness will naturally flourish within you.Remember there's only one you;even if they were to clone you.

Taking time for yourself,whether a walk or run, isn't for someone else but for your own wellbeing.Enjoyeach step, embrace life,and love yourself in every way.

Clap for yourself as you clap for others because they may not always clap for embracing your journey towards self love means acknowledging your own accomplishments and worth,and being independent of external validation.

Yours truly 

Kajad

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